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Wednesday, 27 August 2014

Eye of the tiger: Study finds Asian-American mums really are fearsome

Sunday May 25, 2014

Eye of the tiger: Study finds Asian-American mums really are fearsome



Healthwise

'Tiger mum' Amy Chua, who caused a ruckus with her parenting memoirBattle Hymn of the Tiger Mother, may just have been vindicated by a Stanford University study.
Asian-American “tiger mothers” may be better at motivating their children to complete difficult tasks, but children raised by European-American mothers could be described as more independent.
Those are some of the findings of a new study that builds on the conversation started in 2011 when self-proclaimed tiger mum Amy Chua penned a controversial parenting memoir, Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother, which was criticised for typecasting Asian mothers as unforgivingly strict and demanding.
For their study, published in the journal Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin, researchers from Stanford University asked high school students to describe their relationships with their mothers, and challenged them to a series of tasks that were designed to make the students fail. The objective was to test the kids’ levels of motivation and perseverance.
When instructed to think about their mothers, students of Asian-American mums were observed to be more motivated to complete a task despite experiencing failure, compared to students born to Western or European-American mums. In fact, these students performed better when prompted to think about themselves during the exercises.
The fundamental difference: Children of Asian-American mums draw on their connectedness to their mothers to overcome difficulties, while children of Western mums view themselves as independent. “In European-American contexts, overcoming failure is a personal project, not a group project,” researchers said.
Another notable finding: While children of Western mums considered the pressure they get from their mothers as negative, students of Asian-American mums said they still feel supported by their mothers regardless of the pressure they experienced.
Researchers also say their findings extend beyond the home, as kids from Asian-American mothers are more likely to observe hierarchy and respect the authority of a teacher than European-American students.
It’s the latest study to come from the “tiger mum” controversy. Findings out of Michigan State University found that high-achieving Chinese students were more depressed and anxious than their Caucasian peers. The 2012 study emphasised the importance of rearing happy children more than academic scholars. – AFP Relaxnews


http://www.thestar.com.my/Lifestyle/Family/NewsAndEvents/2014/05/25/Eye-of-the-tiger/

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Sunday, 6 May 2012

Labour of love




THE DOCTOR SAYS
By Dr MILTON LUM

 Sunday April 8, 2012


Labour is the process that signifies events that indicate the impending birth of a child.

SINCE time immemorial, the pregnant mother undergoes a process called labour before the unborn child is delivered. It is only in recent times that this process has been circumvented by Caesarean section in certain groups of pregnant women.

Labour comes about following changes in the biochemical structure of the uterus, leading to regular uterine contractions of sufficient intensity, frequency and duration that results in the gradual thinning and opening up (dilatation) of the cervix.

Labour is a clinical diagnosis. Cervical dilatation without uterine contractions is suggestive of cervical weakness, whereas uterine contraction without cervical dilatation does not meet the definition of labour.

There are three stages in labour. The first stage involves the gradual cervical dilatation from 0 to 10cm, and the descent of the foetal presenting part, ie head or buttocks (breech position) through the mother’s birth canal. The second stage involves the baby’s birth, and the third stage involves the separation of the placenta from the uterine wall and its delivery.

Start of labour

The uterus, which comprises muscle, starts to contract regularly when labour commences. There is noticeable hardening of the abdomen during a regular, painful contraction, and softening when the contraction ceases.

The signs and symptoms of the start of labour include:

·A feeling that the foetus has dropped lower into the pelvis (lightening). This occurs between a few weeks to a few hours before labour starts.

·A pink or bloodstained vaginal discharge from the mucous plug at the cervix (called show), which is pushed out when the cervix starts dilating. This occurs between a few days to the start of labour.

·Backache and/or period-like cramps.

·A dribbling or gush of liquid when the “water bag” (waters) surrounding the foetus breaks.

·Contractions.

If there is bleeding or the waters break, one should proceed to the hospital immediately, even if there are no contractions.

False labour

The uterus may contract on and off long before labour starts. These contractions (Braxton Hicks contractions) are sometimes mistaken for labour. They occur irregularly from the middle of pregnancy onwards and are usually not painful, although they sometimes can be painful.

There are ways of distinguishing true from false labour. Braxton Hicks contractions are irregular and do not increase in intensity with time. True labour contractions are regular and increase in intensity, with shortening of the interval between contractions as time passes.

Braxton Hicks contractions may stop with walking, resting or even a change of position. True labour contractions continue irrespective of what one does. A practical method of distinguishing between the two is to time the duration of the contractions.

It would be prudent, when in doubt, to seek professional assessment by a doctor or midwife. A vaginal examination would provide definitive information about the start of labour.

Stage one

This stage involves the gradual thinning and dilatation of the cervix from 0 to 10cm and the descent of the foetal presenting part, ie head or bottom (breech) through the mother’s birth canal.

There are two phases.

The initial latent phase involves the thinning and dilation of the cervix from 0 to 3cm. This may take days or hours during which there are contractions, which may be regular or irregular. Some women feel the contractions whilst others do not notice them at all.

The subsequent active phase is characterised by strong and painful contractions, which last 30 to 60 seconds. The cervix dilates from 3 to 10cm. The interval between the contractions is between three to four minutes apart initially, and later, it shortens to about one to two minutes apart as the cervical dilatation gets to 8cm or more.

There may be an urge to go to the toilet as the presenting part exerts pressure against the rectum in its passage down the birth canal.

Once labour is established, the first stage lasts between 6 to 12 hours in those having their first baby. If one has had a baby previously, this stage is often shorter.

The mother and foetus are monitored throughout labour. This involves checking the mother’s general condition, blood pressure, pulse, contractions and pain levels.

The foetal heart is monitored throughout labour to detect any changes which may indicate that the foetus is in distress. This is done by periodic listening every 15 minutes with a foetal stethoscope or a hand-held ultrasound device; or continuous electronic monitoring with a device called cardiotocograph (CTG) through a monitor fastened by a belt to the abdomen.

An alternative approach is through an electrode placed on the foetal head after the waters have broken and attached to the CTG.

It may be necessary to speed up labour if the contractions are not strong or frequent enough, or because the foetal position is abnormal. The doctor will explain the need and the manner in which this will be done.

During this stage, you can walk around the labour room if you feel like doing so. Fluids and food can be taken unless advised otherwise. (Pain relief will be discussed in a subsequent article.)

You should not feel embarrassed by your appearance or behaviour, as the midwife has seen it all. It is important to adhere to the midwife’s advice to resist the urge to push until the cervix reaches 10cm dilatation.

Stage two

It is the practice to inject a newborn baby with vitamin K to prevent
haemorrhagic disease of the newborn. If there are objections to an
  injection, the midwife should be notified as oral doses are available.

This stage starts from the time the cervix is dilated to 10cm until the baby is born.

The contractions are strong, regular and appear to merge from one to another. There is an urge to bear down and push as if you have not passed motion for a few days.

This can be done by taking two deep breaths at the start of the contraction and pushing downwards for as long as is possible until the contraction stops. Another breath may be taken if necessary.

One needs to rest after each contraction and gather up the energy for the next contraction. The attending healthcare professional (accoucheur), who is a midwife or doctor, will provide the encouragement for this hard work.

There are various positions for this stage. They include lying in bed with pillows propping up the back, lying on the side, sitting, kneeling or even squatting.

What is important is to choose a position that one is comfortable with. It may help if you have tried out some of the positions beforehand.

If it is the first baby, this stage can last up to one to two hours. If one has had a baby previously, this stage is frequently much shorter.

When the presenting part appears at the vulva, which is the opening of the birth canal, the mother may feel that the area between the vulva and anus (perineum) is being stretched. The accoucheur will advise the mother to stop pushing and to pant some rapid short breaths.

This provides time for the perineum to stretch without tearing, thereby facilitating a gentle birth of the baby. However, the perineal skin may tear in some mothers.

If there is evidence that the perineum is going to tear or if there is a need to hasten the delivery, the accoucheur will ensure it is anaesthetised before making a cut in the perineum (episiotomy), which will be stitched up later.

After the foetal head is delivered, a gentle push is all that is necessary for the rest of the baby’s body to be delivered. The umbilical cord is then cut. (A subsequent article will discuss vaginal breech delivery.)

Stage three

This stage involves the separation of the placenta from the uterine wall and contraction of the uterus, which pushes the placenta out of the birth canal. The process takes between five to 30 minutes after the baby’s birth.

The accoucheur usually administers an injection of a hormone called oxytocin to assist the process, and for the uterus to contract to reduce heavy blood loss, which occurs in some women.

The cuddling of the baby after birth helps in bonding between mother and baby. This can be done before the baby is cleansed of the messiness on the skin. As many labour rooms are air-conditioned, it is essential that the baby is kept warm.

It is the practice to inject a newborn baby with vitamin K to prevent haemorrhagic disease of the newborn. If there are objections to an injection, the midwife should be notified as oral doses are available.

The baby will be weighed, measured and examined by the midwife and/or paediatrician. An identification band with the mother’s name will be attached to a part of the baby’s body.

There are occasions when the mucous in the baby’s nose, mouth and throat needs to be sucked out. There are also occasions when the baby requires assistance to start breathing.

The mother will then be assisted in washing and freshening up prior to transfer to the postnatal ward.

> Dr Milton Lum is a member of the board of Medical Defence Malaysia. This article is not intended to replace, dictate or define evaluation by a qualified doctor. The views expressed do not represent that of any organisation the writer is associated with.

http://thestar.com.my/health/story.asp?file=/2012/4/8/health/11035746&sec=health

Nurturing a safe pregnancy


POSITIVE PARENTINGBy Dr H. KRISHNA KUMAR
 Sunday April 8, 2012

 
Let’s work together to reduce mortality rates through improved maternal health.

ACHIEVING good maternal health requires quality reproductive health services and a series of well-timed interventions to ensure a women’s safe passage to motherhood. Failure to provide affordable and quality care results in thousands of maternal deaths globally each year.

Research shows that the majority of maternal deaths can be prevented if women have access to quality family planning services, skilled care during pregnancy, childbirth and the first month after delivery.

Understanding the importance of maternal mortality reduction has become a national and global priority, reflected in the Millennium Development Goals (MDG), a series of collective priorities by the United Nations, which include improved maternal health. By 2015, world leaders pledged that the world would achieve measurable improvements by reducing the maternal mortality ratio by three-quarters and providing universal access to reproductive health.

Statistics show that Malaysia has one of lowest maternal mortality ratios amongst Asian countries at 31 per 100,000 live births in 2011. Our country’s success in reducing maternal mortality reflects improvements in access to quality maternal health services, including family planning; increased professional skills; close engagement with communities to remove social constraints; and improved maternal health services.

Safe motherhood and newborn health

The risks of childbearing for a mother and her baby can be greatly reduced if the mother is in a good state of health, is properly nourished, and has access to good antenatal care and proper confinement care.

Before deciding to get pregnant, it is important to consider common risk factors listed below that could cause complications during pregnancy and labour.

·Smoking leads to increased risk of miscarriage, bleeding, reduced birth weight, premature birth, increased risk of sudden infant death syndrome (SIDS), and stillbirth.

·Alcohol could cause foetal alcohol syndrome, with symptoms like low birth weight, and birth defects, such as heart, skeletal, kidney, ears and eyes malfunction.

·Caffeine affects the heart rate of your growing foetus and his awake time (growth occurs when foetuses sleep).

·Lack of good nutrition, which is crucial for the health of a developing foetus. Inadequate intake of vitamin B (folic acid), for instance, can cause birth defects, such as neural tube defects. These include spina bifida, where the baby’s spine does not form properly, or anencephaly, where the top part of the skull fails to form and may lead to the erosion of the foetal brain.

The combination of vitamin B12, vitamin C and iron can help increase haemoglobin levels prior to pregnancy to prepare for your developing baby’s nutritional needs.

·Women after 35 are at an increased risk of medical problems like high blood pressure, gestational diabetes, chromosomal abnormalities in the foetus, and stillbirth.

·Overweight or obese women are at a higher chance of having large babies, causing a difficult delivery, which may result in increased risks of injury to both mother and child. These women may also develop gestational diabetes, high blood pressure and preeclampsia.

Women who are underweight, however, are more likely to have small babies, who are underweight as well. The amount of weight you should healthily gain during pregnancy is relative to your pre-pregnancy body mass index (BMI). For example, if your pre-pregnancy BMI is 28, you are overweight and should aim for a weight gain of only 7-11.5 kg by the end of your pregnancy.

Infections that could harm your baby

There are certain infections that could harm you and your baby during pregnancy. Although you have probably been vaccinated as a child, they do not protect you for life, and it is important that you make sure your vaccinations are up-to-date.

Vaccinations help protect your body from infections, and you can pass this protection on to your baby. This will help keep him safe during his first few months until he gets his own vaccinations.

Most vaccinations are not safe to be taken during pregnancy, and instead should be taken as soon as you decide to get pregnant. These include:

Flu: Protects you and your baby against both the seasonal flu and H1N1. Getting the flu during pregnancy could cause complications like pneumonia.

HPV (human papillomavirus): Protects against subtypes of HPV that could cause cervical changes and most cervical cancers.

MMR (measles, mumps, rubella): Protects against measles, a serious disease that causes rashes, cough and fever. It could also cause diarrhoea, ear infection, pneumonia, brain damage, or even death in worst-case scenarios! Getting measles during pregnancy may cause miscarriages.

Tdap (tetanus, diphtheria, pertussis): Prevents pertussis, which can be easily spread, and is very dangerous to babies.

Varicella (chickenpox): Getting chickenpox during pregnancy could cause birth defects in your baby.

Ensure a healthy pregnancy, protect your child

Caring for your child starts even before he is conceived. Changing your lifestyle habits, eg quitting smoking and drinking alcohol, as well as reducing/quitting your intake of caffeine will help you have a healthy pregnancy.

Pay a visit to your doctor before getting pregnant, to get a check-up and ensure that you are fit and healthy to conceive.

Good nutrition is always important, and a balanced and varied diet is essential for the proper development of your baby. Taking vital vitamins, such as folic acid, is needed to prevent neural tube and spinal cord defects.

Approximately 400µg of folic acid should be taken at least one month prior to and throughout your pregnancy.

Being overweight or obese could increase your chances of having complications during pregnancy and labour. Thus, moderate exercises would help prevent excessive weight gain and also keep you active. Swimming, walking and certain types of yoga are favourites among pregnant women.

An issue that is almost always ignored is the failure of detecting a medical problem before pregnancy. Some women have a very strong family history of diabetes mellitus and hypertension in their family. Other common problems include bronchial asthma, heart diseases, thyroid disorders and connective tissue disorders. It is best to identify and take steps to control these diseases early or before embarking on a pregnancy.

For women with pre-pregnancy health problems, the choice of oral contraception is important as it may interfere with the medications prescribed for the other medical problems. Infections from an intrauterine contraceptive device (IUCD), for example, may be too strong for certain valvular cardiac problems. Therefore, it is highly recommended to consult your doctor and ask if your current medications are safe for your baby.

Most public and private healthcare centres also provide support and education on pregnancy-related issues to the community. Regular monitoring will help ensure a healthy pregnancy and baby!

> Dr H Krishna Kumar is consultant obstetrician & gynaecologist and president of OGSM. This article is courtesy of the Malaysian Paediatric Association’s Positive Parenting programme. The opinions expressed in the article are the view of the author. For further information, please visit www.mypositiveparenting.org.

 http://thestar.com.my/health/story.asp?file=/2012/4/8/health/11048982&sec=health